The Secret Ingredient: How to Find Your Gift and Use it to Succeed
Written by Sarah Treleaven | Published on January 19, 2022
Written by Sarah Treleaven | Published on January 19, 2022
Pablo Picasso. Warren Buffet. Marie Curie. Toni Morrison. These geniuses and many others have changed our lives by believing in their innate gifts and having the courage to share them with the world. But what if we all could unlock that one skill (or skills!) we have and put them to groundbreaking use? Maybe not to change history — although, why not? — but to upgrade your career, make more money, or simply feel great about ourselves?
Business coach Kelly Trach, author of P.S. You're a Genius, totally thinks we can. And, with a little self-reflection, we can each use our gifts — whether they lie in art, finance, science or another discipline entirely — to succeed in every other aspect of our lives. In this Q&A, we asked Trach about figuring out what you're good at and running with it.
Kelly Trach: When you take your top three to five gifts, and combine them together, you create expertise that only you can uniquely do. Some people call it your “it factor" or your "secret sauce," but I call it your "genius."
KT: We figure that out through a series of 10 self-reflective questions, things like:
We're trying to figure out what comes naturally and what you can do well with almost no thought or preparation. Then, we put together the top gifts and find your genius when you perform a task that uses all of them. For example, my best gifts are speaking, teaching, creating and connecting. And when I do those things at once, I can create something that's in alignment with my genius, like doing a podcast interview or coaching a client.
Your genius doesn't need any fancy bells and whistles. Picasso could draw masterpieces on the back of a napkin.
KT: You can turn your genius into whatever you desire — whether that's a career, a side hustle or a business. One of my best tips is to really think about the top five people you admire most, and then write down five things you like about every single one of them; that reflects your gifts back to you.
But here's a follow-up thing that's important: Consider how all those people that you admire are making money. Because there's a good chance you could leverage your genius in a similar way.
KT: In the book, I talk about a money coach named Carrie. Carrie worked for a CPA firm and hedge fund in London, U.K. but her true genius was in personal finance. One of the questions that really helped her is: "What are you good at that nobody taught you how to do?"
In her spare time, she would read blogs on how to save for retirement, had a spreadsheet for everything, and ended up becoming a self-made millionaire. She decided that she wanted to help other women create a money plan and become financially independent. And I always say, if you've gotten results for yourself, you can teach somebody else.
Photo: Estee Chin
KT: That chapter is about feeling like we need different circumstances in order to start. Like, "I would love to start a healthy recipes blog, but I need a brand-new Pinterest-worthy kitchen first." But your genius doesn't need any fancy bells and whistles. Picasso could draw masterpieces on the back of a napkin. You don't need two years abroad with a trust fund to do your best work. You could just do it now. Ignore the inner critic, and the fear of failure, success or judgment that tells you that you can't.
KT: Read the book. It will help you figure out your gifts and put them together to find your genius. Next, identify which doubts are holding you back and overcome them one by one. And, finally, throw away the rules and put your genius to work through small action steps.
KT: I call it “the red thread." Look back at everything you've accomplished as a red thread sewn through your unique experiences — past jobs, internships and side gigs — and recognize how you've picked up a lot of gifts along the way. You've actually spent a lot of time in your genius! A lot of people feel like they don't have enough accolades or awards to be a genius, but knowing all that, you can feel confident acting in the present moment.
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